Myths
and Misconceptions of Hypnosis
In this section of the web
site I will be chatting about some
of the bizarre ideas that people
have about Hypnosis… I must admit
that I believed a few of these
things myself before I started
studying the subject in a lot more
depth. Now that I know a lot, they
seem very silly.
The exciting thing is that more and
more people are having positive
experiences with Hypnosis. Society
as a whole seems to be more
accepting of it as a therapeutic aid
than it used to be a few years ago.
Here are some of the most Frequently
Asked Questions about hypnosis:
- Is hypnosis
some form of mystical magic?
- Is hypnosis
caused by the power of the
therapist?
- Can you
make me do something I don't
want to do?
- Can you
make me bark like a dog or
run round and cluck like a
chicken?
- I'm very
strong minded and maybe a
little stubborn, can I be
hypnotised?
- Can
everyone be hypnotised?
- Is Hypnosis
dangerous?
- Can I get
'stuck' in hypnosis?
- Can I get
possessed by the Devil while
in hypnosis?
- What if I
fall asleep while in
Hypnosis?
- The secrets
of Stage Hypnosis... what
the Hypnotists don't want
you to know
Is
hypnosis some form of mystical
magic?
Nope. There is no magic wand
that we can wave over our
reclining clients to take away
all of their problems. It would
be great if there was, but there
isn’t. Hypnosis is simply a
tool. Although the results of
hypnosis can sometimes seem
magical, there is no magic
involved.
Hypnosis can make extremely
positive, quick changes in a
person’s life, but it is using
the power of the mind to do
this. The power of their own
mind. The power that has always
been there, but has been locked
away.
Is Hypnosis
caused by the power of the
Therapist?
Definitely not! In fact, the
hypnotherapist has no power at
all. All hypnosis is
self-hypnosis. If someone does
not want to be hypnotised then
they won’t be. Simple as that.
That’s why it’s important to
know what hypnosis is and how it
works.
Stage Hypnotists love to create
the illusion that they possess
some sort of paranormal,
supernatural power over others,
but it’s a load of rubbish.
A Hypnotherapist is nothing more
than a tour guide. All they do
is guide you on a peaceful
journey of change. If you don’t
want to follow the guide then
you don’t need to. However,
there’s not much point in having
hypnosis if you don’t want to
follow the guidance of the
therapist!
Can you MAKE
me do something I don’t want to
do?
Nope. No-one can make you do
what you don’t want to do. While
in hypnosis you are completely
in control and totally aware of
everything that is happening
around you. Think about this, if
you could force people to do
things with hypnosis, I could
walk into a bank, wave my hands
in a mystical manner and
hypnotise the person behind the
counter. I could then say (in a
spooky voice) “Give me all of
your money, and forget you gave
it to me!” Then I could walk out
of the bank with armfuls of cash
and never have to work again!
That would be wonderful – but
you can’t do it.
Also, if you could make people
do what they don’t want to do
then there would be no wars. “No
wars? How so?”, I hear you say.
Well, the government could train
up a squad of elite
hypnotherapists, parachute them
into a foreign country,
hypnotise their leader and then
there would be no problems. The
said Dictator would be in our
control.
Again, do you think that
politicians haven’t tried the
idea of hypnotising people to
vote for them? If you could do
so, then it would have been done
by now. Let’s face it, some
politicians are less than
honest.
So you can’t make someone do
what they don’t want to do. In
the case of most problems, you
need to want to get rid of it
from your life. Then we can have
success. So that leads us nicely
into…
Can you make
me bark like a dog or run round
and cluck like a chicken?
So the answer to the above
question is “Yes, if you want to
bark like a dog or run round and
cluck like a chicken then I can
make you do that; but if you
wouldn’t do it under normal
circumstances, then you wouldn’t
do it when you’re hypnotised.”
And if you did do it under
normal circumstances then I
would be a bit worried about
treating you!
One of the biggest
misconceptions of hypnosis is
that you can make someone do
what they don’t want to do. As
explained above, you can’t.
“So how come my mate went up on
stage at Butlins and the Stage
Hypnotist made him run around
thinking he was a rabid dog?”
That’s a good question. And it’s
answered in the next section…
I’m very
strong minded and maybe a little
stubborn, can I be hypnotised?
Yes. In fact I love to have
strong willed and stubborn
people in my hypnotherapy chair.
They’re great! Once they realise
that it’s not a power struggle
between the hypnotherapist and
themselves; that hypnosis is
just a form of relaxation… then
they are really good at it.
No-one can be controlled by a
hypnotherapist.
Can everyone
be hypnotised?
Almost everyone. People with
severe mental problems or
extremely low IQ are more
difficult to hypnotise because
specialist techniques need to be
used. Anyone that wants to be
hypnotised will be. There are
two things that will stop
someone from going into hypnosis
though:
They believe one of the
misconceptions about hypnosis
and are fearful. Fear prevents
people from going into hypnosis
because you can’t relax and be
scared at the same time.
The person doesn’t want to be
hypnotised for some reason,
perhaps they’re trying to prove
that they can’t be hypnotised.
Prove how strong minded they are
or they believe it’s a power
struggle between the therapist
and themselves.
Is hypnosis
dangerous?
In a word, no. In fact hypnosis
is a very natural state. We all
drift in and out of hypnosis
every day. It’s a completely
safe and normal state for us to
go into. With all the law suits
around today and the
sensationalism that tabloid
writers put into stories; the
front page of newspapers would
be splattered with reports of
people getting injured or hurt
while in a hypnotic state.
Can I get
‘stuck’ in hypnosis?
Again no. If an emergency were
to happen while you were in
hypnosis, you would emerge
quickly and deal with the
situation in your normal
effective manner. Hypnosis is
just a wonderful calm state of
relaxation, and we can all snap
out of a relaxed state very
quickly can’t we? If people
could get ‘stuck’ in hypnosis
then there would be loads of
them in Mental Institutions
stuck in a trancelike state… and
there isn’t.
If you could get stuck in
hypnosis Hypnotherapy would be
banned because poor old Uncle
Albert went for a Stop-Smoking
session and never came out
again, he got ‘stuck’ in
hypnosis and his family really
miss him. They visit him
regularly in London City Mental
Institute. It just doesn’t
happen does it? Can you imagine
the faces of my clients in the
waiting room if I wheeled
someone out on a stretcher and
said loudly – “Not another one.
They just keep getting stuck in
hypnosis… Who’s next?” I’d
quickly run out of people to
see!
Can I get
possessed by the Devil while in
hypnosis?
Now that one really sounds daft
doesn’t it? Some people believe
it though. They will happily
smile at you and then show you
in the Bible where it tells you
that hypnosis is a tool of Satan
and that you open yourself up to
evil spirits when being
hypnotised.
There’s a couple of problems
with this argument. The first
problem is that the word
Hypnosis was not invented until
the 1800’s. Now parts of the
Bible have been around (as far
as we are aware) for about 7000
years. The most recent parts of
the Bible (i.e. the New
Testament) have been around for
about 2000 years. If the word
‘hypnosis’ appears in the Bible
then it wasn’t put there by the
prophets who wrote in the Good
Book was it? It must have been
added a lot later, in fact it
would have been added at least
1800 years later. I’ll let you
draw your own conclusions about
that.
I can understand where this idea
comes from. You can bet a stage
hypnotist hypnotised some poor
‘unsuspecting’ folks and they
ran round on stage clucking like
a chicken. The wife of this
normally ‘sane’ man exclaimed
“My husband is POSSESSED!” and
promptly got a Priest to
exorcise the demons from her
husband! Quite comical really.
What if I
fall asleep while in Hypnosis?
That’s fine! We’ll be talking to
your unconscious mind and even
if your conscious mind were to
fall asleep hypnosis would still
work. Your unconscious mind
never sleeps. If it did then
you’d die, because the
unconscious mind controls your
heart beating, your lungs moving
and all of the other incredible
things that your body does
without our conscious
interruption.
The secrets
of Stage Hypnosis… what the
Hypnotists don’t want you to know
First of all let me tell you I don’t
agree with Stage Hypnosis. I think
it gives the wrong impression of
this wonderful tool and cheapens it.
If you can’t be made to do what you
don’t want to do then how come these
people get up on stage and do the
most crazy stunts?
Let’s look at what the Stage
Hypnotist does. Firstly he has an
audience of a couple of hundred
people. If he’s on the TV then his
audience is even larger. He asks for
volunteers to come up on stage.
Now you’re not going to get a shy
person bounding out of their seats
and jumping up on the stage to make
a fool of themselves are you?
Everyone who goes on stage makes a
fool of themselves, they all know
what’s about to happen. You’re only
going to get people who love to be
the centre of attention and want to
act stupidly.
So the hypnotist might have ten
extraverted people on the stage with
him. He then puts them all through
some tests. He might call them
“Concentration Tests” but they’re
actually testing something else. He
is testing to see if the people are
“Suggestible”. In other words he’s
looking for people who will do
exactly what he wants them to do.
You must have some friends who you
can suggest daft things to and you
know they’re gullible or just plain
daft enough to go ahead and do them?
Well, that’s the kind of person he
is looking for.
The hypnotist will then reject seven
out of the ten volunteers, he’ll ask
them to go back to their seats. They
will smugly walk off stage, smiling
to themselves and proudly boast to
their friends “He couldn’t hypnotise
me, my mind’s too strong!” – what a
load of dribble! They’ve been
rejected because they won’t make a
twit of themselves on front of
hundreds of people.
And now we have it… the hypnotist is
left with three people on stage who
have the following traits:
1. They love to be the centre of
attention
2. They WANT to act stupidly
3. They will do everything that the
hypnotist asks because they like
acting like a nutter.
And so from that point onwards
the hypnotist doesn’t actually need
hypnosis at all. I mean, if you look
at the Generation Game, they act
just as stupidly on that show and
nobody is hypnotised. The only
difference between Stage Hypnosis
and the Generation Game is a
conveyor belt. They’ve just found
the right kind of person who is
entertaining.
Of course, when the ‘victims’ come
off stage they can blame their
antics on the hypnotist. Bit
embarrassing for them if they don’t,
as they’ve just made a complete
monkey of themselves in front of
hundreds of people! |