Peter
Hubbard's True Story
I am an IT consultant who's
job requires them to fly all over
the globe. In the past 12 months I
have been to Slovenia, Ireland,
Dubai and Spain multiple times. It
worked out that I was catching a
flight every 10 days.
I have an irrational fear of
flying and it steadily got worse the
more I flew. I would sit white faced
and clutch the arms of my chair each
time the slightest quiver ran
through the plane and spent all my
time silently begging the trip to be
over. The fear and panic would start
several days before I flew as I
started to anticipate the upcoming
ordeal and I would spend the time
getting progressively worse and
worse as the take off got nearer and
nearer.
I bought some herbal calming
tablets and tried those to see if
they would influence me but could
not detect any difference between
taking the pills and not. The same
fears would still assail me, before
I got on the plane and while I was
there. Ruining any attempt to relax
while I was away because I knew that
I would have to get back on the
plane again and fly home.
A friend of mine introduced me to
hypnotherapy and explained some of
the details about how it works. I
decided that anything was worth a
shot so booked myself an appointment
with a registered hypnotherapist to
see if anything could be done.
The lady was charm itself and
welcomed me in and sat me down and
explained to me exactly what would
happen. I would lie down on a comfy
couch (Or sit as I preferred) with
some headphones on. The headphones
played soothing music while she
would talk to me. I could sleep or
doze or listen as I chose as it was
all the same to her. She was not
speaking to my conscious mind, but
my subconscious one where the fear
lived.
The session itself took about an
hour and was very relaxing. She
spoke without haste in a calm
authoritative manner, asking me to
visualize certain images, such as a
mountain side or descending down
steps. After about 45 minutes of
this when I was very relaxed she
spoke to my
subconscious about the reasons why
flying were not to be feared. I was
fully conscious the whole time and
listened as she explained why flying
was a natural fear, how safe it was
and the fact that a flight should be
seen as a chance to relax away from
pressures of the outside world. At
the end of the session she advised I
should have one more as a 'booster'
the following week and we arranged
it.
The same course was followed the
next week and she once again helped
me to relax.
The following Sunday I had a 7 hour
flight to Dubai for work. Normally I
would have been a nervous wreck by
Thursday and unbearable by Sunday.
This time I was calm and relaxed. I
boarded the plane and took off with
only a minor twinge of unease,
swiftly stifled.
A 7 hour flight would have killed
me previously, this time when we
encountered turbulence instead of
freezing to the spot in panic my
only reaction was to frown that the
bouncing was interfering with me
watching the in flight movie.
I still get a little nervous at the
prospect of flying but it is so much
better and so much easier to control
now I have had hypnotherapy and I
urge all those who are similarly
afflicted to try it themselves! |